Thursday, August 09, 2007

Moving..... the bad and the good.

So last week, the week after my surgery, Mr. T told us that he would like us to be out of our house by the first week of September. We have been looking into apartments all over and trying to decide where the best place to live is. With C and I working in two different towns/cities that are 45 mins apart it makes it hard. Plus C works in a big college town and with school just now starting up all of the good, nice, inexpensive apartments are already taken.
I don't know whether to feel anger, or glad, or sad. I know that the house would be too much of a responsibility for C and I to have but then an apartment would be so much smaller. I am angry because i feel like we are being rushed into something that is a decision I need time to plan for. We don't have a place picked yet and I am freaking out about what stuff to pack first.
C doesn't seem to be helping the situation at all. I know he is bothered and he wants to find a new place like i do. I think we both want it to be nice, safe, and clean. I think he will be in for a rude awakening when we move though because he will actually be responsible for stuff like doing the dishes when i cook and taking the garbage out when it is full.
I think there is a lot more than Mr. T is telling us about why he wants to or needs to sell the house. It bothers me that he hasn't been truthful with us about the situation. But then again it isn't my place to pry into other peoples business.
I am excited about the move for lots of different reasons and not just because i can boss C around the house. LOL. I am excited to place the things i want where i want them. To be able to have a theme in each room of my home. I know that sounds silly but it is something i have always wanted to do. This is my plan that may change by the time we move because of the shape of the apartment.... I would like to have american flag theme in the living room, a wine and grape theme in the kitchen, an inspirational theme in the bedroom (i have seen lots of words for the walls like love, kindness, fun etc) I have so many pictures of family members and i want to have lots of room for them too. I haven't yet figured out the bathroom but i am sure it will come.
I will be happy to have a clean home that is all about me. LOL. I know that C will have his own room in the 2nd bedroom because that will be his study area. I am thinking of getting him a cork board so that he can post his pics in there. If it was my room do decorate i would make it like a business study, but because it is his hobby room as well as gaming room i have to leave it up to him. LOL. The good news is he isn't too picky.
I want to write a couple more blogs today with pics so i will be done here and will chat with you later.

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